Verna, Hazel Belle, and Shirlie Pope |
Verna Myra Pope was born on 1 Mar 1889 as the fourth
daughter of Winslow Lonsdale Pope and Nancy Ann Marie Lyons. Winslow had been married before and had lost
his wife. He had two other living
children (Francis Hooker Pope b. 22 Jan 1873 and Viola Belinda b. 15 Sep 1875.) Winslow and Nancy started out their married
life in New Hampshire and Vermont and were living there when their two oldest
daughters were born (Shirlie Louisa – my great grandmother b. 14 Jul 1881 and
Anna May b. 5 Nov 1883), but by the time that Mattie Winnova b. 1 Jan 1886 and
Verna Myra were born (1 Mar 1889) they were in Lake Park, Dickinson Co.,
Iowa. They stayed there a few years and
daughter Hazel Bell was born 17 Dec 1891.
By the time that their son John Francis was born on 26 Nov 1895 they
lived in Sioux Valley, Jackson Co. MN.
Their youngest son, Plumer Elwood Pope was born on 26 Nov 1895 in Lake
Park, Dickson Co., IA. It wasn’t too
long after 1901, when Mattie died of diphtheria, that the Pope family moved
near Washburn, McLean Co., ND.
Verna probably never really got to know her sister, Viola,
she died in 1892 and her next oldest sister, Mattie died in 1901. I imagine the family always lived with
sickness of some time. I’ve no idea how
long that their mother, Nancy Ann Marie Lyons, lived with tuberculosis…however,
from what I have read, it could have short period of time or years. Nancy died on 30 May 1906, not too long after
Shirlie married George White. Winslow
was left at home with his three daughters and two sons ranging in age from 23
to 9 years old. At a young age, Verna
knew how to work…I’m sure she helped care for her younger siblings and
certainly her ailing mother. After her
death, she was 17 years old and I’ve been told that she went out to find work
to help support the family. Verna - Washer Girl abt 1905 |
She married John Axel “Swede” Johnson on 2 Apr 1908 and within a short time, started her own family. I don’t imagine that their life was easy. I’ve heard too many tales of ropes between a house and barn during the winter time so one wouldn’t lose their way during blizzard conditions…or summers where hail and tornados could ruin the family crops before they ever could be harvested. Verna, was by all accounts, a good farm wife and mother. However, it appears to me that she grew with tragedy in her family…and it wasn’t done with her yet. On 8 Jul 1921, Verna’s closest sister in age, Hazel Bell, died at the young age of 29. Hazel’s husband had died several months earlier and now their four children were orphans. Then in early April of 1927, Verna learned that her sister, Shirlie, was very ill. Braving what must have been very cold and icy conditions, she rode her horse across the iced over Missouri River to Dunn Center, ND to try and take care of her sister. Shirlie died on 14 Apr 1927…within a few days of her sister’s arrival. Verna always blamed Shirlie’s husband (Ulpian Grey “George” Johnson) for not getting the doctor for his wife earlier. I’m not sure that would have helped in 1927. Shirlie died of pneumonia and there was very little most doctors could do to help someone very sick. Once again, her sister left behind children to mourn her – three sons and three daughters, the youngest being only four years of age.
Verna with youngest son, Harley. |
Many years ago, I met Verna’s granddaughter. She told me of the trip that Verna had made to try and care for her sister and her bitterness that they weren’t able to save her. Perhaps that bitterness is why our families have had little contact through the years. By the time, 1940 had rolled around…all but one of Verna’s siblings had died…of ten children only Verna and her youngest brother, Plumer were still alive. Diphtheria, Pneumonia, Tuberculosis other illness had taken the family she grew up with away. In her lifetime, she had lost her parents, her siblings, her husband and perhaps the most devastating loss of all…her child. Fifty seven seems to be a young age to have died…but with all that loss, perhaps not!