A few days ago, I was going through some old cassette tapes
and I came across an old tape that stirred a few sweet memories for me.
When I was a little girl…probably before Kindergarten or
perhaps the same year, Fiddler on the Roof, the movie, came out. I don’t know if I saw the movie in the
theater…I honestly can’t remember.
However, I do remember riding with my mother in the car and listening to
the music. When Tevye begins singing “If
I were a Rich Man,” Mom and I would sing
right along with it. Perhaps this sounds
natural to most people…but honestly Mom was not one to listen to vocal music in
the car. She used to say that she would
get too involved with the music. We had
instrumental music playing the in car all the time…but to have a vocalist
singing music was different. Mom was a
classically trained musician and singer who was a performer and teacher. At that time in my life, Mom had several
vocal students as well and piano students.
So, when Mom listened to something – she listened with a critical
ear. It was hard for her to really
listen to music and enjoy it.
Fiddler on the Roof was different for Mom. I don’t really remember Mom driving that
much. She quit driving by the time I was
10 years old. Once my siblings started
driving, she really didn’t need to and she really didn’t enjoy it. So, for me to remember riding in the car with
Mom driving and singing music from the stereo was significant. Whenever I hear the music from the
soundtrack, it takes me back to my childhood and singing in the car with my
mother.
My niece was in Fiddler on the Roof in high school. By that point, Mom’s health was poor and she
couldn’t really sit in the seats at the theater. She wanted to see it, but her health didn’t
allow that. I remember Dad and I sitting
there watching the opening scenes in the play.
I got quite emotional listening to the familiar music. My niece wasn’t too happy that she didn’t get
the role of one of the daughters…instead she played Yente, the Matchmaker. I remember telling her that no one remembers
who played the daughters from the Broadway production…but everyone remembered
Bea Arthurs who played Yente. Yente was scene
stealer of a character, and my niece was one of the most memorable characters
in that production.
I remember going home after the play and my Mother was
anxiously waiting to hear how it went.
After talking about the kid’s performance, I told her that the music
made me a bit teary eyed. She asked me
why…and I told her that I remembered riding in the car with her singing “If I
were a Rich Man” along with the soundtrack.
Mom smiled at me and said that she remembered that too. The next day, while we were back in the den
working on our computers, I played the soundtrack on the stereo. Once again…we sat together listening and
singing along to the music.